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Adventures in Ridiculosity: #RHOA S8 E3 “Party In A Sweatbox”

Let’s get right into it. Phaedra is REALLY on a new level with Shade.  Phaedra and Porsha are going to get colonics. They are in the office shaking off nerves by shaking their booties.  They are filming while Porsha is getting this done but not while Phaedra did it.  Porsha know she had to do something strange for that “i got my peach back” change. Of course…while we’re talkin about shitty stuff…let’s bring up this “sip and see” party.  She heard about the porn and transgender stuff being gossiped about at the party.  Girl…chickens DO come home. Now we’re with Kandi and Todd.  Kandi still sounds like she doesn’t understand...

Reflections: The Natural Hair Industry Convention

I had previously planned to be a little more timely with this post. However, I needed some time to digest the amount of amazingness that I experienced at the Natural Hair Industry Convention. And I needed even more time to start putting a lot of the information into practice. I got there early and before breakfast had ended my mind was blown and I had already received valuable advice and met some amazing people.  It was a surreal moment to be sitting among such amazing women.  There is no more life altering feeling than being in a space surrounded by generations of women who are dynamic, trail-blazing, tenacious, opinionated, and...

The Men You Meet While Online Dating

So now that I’ve made you privy to the signs of online dating.  I thought I’d help you out and give you a clue to some of the guys you’ll come across when you are online dating.  IF any fellas are reading this…let me know some women you meet because…I wouldn’t know…all I know is me and I’M AWESOME! 🙂 1.The Child Left Behind Do not pass go.  Do not collect $200.  GO DIRECTLY TO “DELETE”.  There are certain grammatical errors that are easily committed.  There are certain errors that are acceptable.  There’s slang.  There are contemporary urban colloquialisms.  But BABY…the errors that “The Child Left Behind” makes will make...

Are you Successful? Probably Not

Ok.  So in my best guess you likely came to this post feeling some type of way.   That way may be in agreement,  extreme side eyement or all up in your feelingsment. (yea…yea…or some other -ment…probably curiosityment — don’t judge my made up wordness.  Thank – MGT) Either way you giving me the best “YOU DON’T KNOW MY LIFE FACE AND EYEROLL THAT YOU CAN MUSTER” LOOK…I’m used to that ish by now but hear me out. The term successful is a good word.  It’s a word that people throw around but it means different things to different folks.  One person’s idea of success is failure for another.  Another person’s...

The Stages of Online Dating

So, we’re all out here in these streets dating or we’ve all been out here.  We are out here feeling ourselves.  We know who we are, what we want, that we fine as hell, we are smart as hell, and all around EVERYTHING!   SO…you may start to wonder, where is BAE!  I’m all of Everything…except… Stage 1: So you decide to venture into the dating scene but you may be like you know what…I don’t do clubs…I don’t do bars…and I’m really really really ridiculously adulting.  So pretty much, I just go to work, home, the grocery store, and the dollar store. LOL (Don’t judge me).  So you say....

20 THINGS I LEARNED IN MY 20S: PART 3 (FINALE)

Part 1 Part 2 Finishing this has taken me forever because of LIFE…but here it is the finale!  Check out the other parts right up yonder above this here sentence.  K…cool! 14. Trust you Gut.  That inkling.  Those butterflies.  Take heed.  You feel them for a reason.  Jump out there or run away.  Listen to what’s being shown to you. 15. Define your OWN happiness.  Do what makes you happy and not what seems to be on trend or what makes someone else happy.  Genuine happiness always wins and beats out the fake and imitations. 16. People grow apart. People aren’t meant to all be your best friends.  Trust the...